Love

What is “love” to you? Or what’s the meaning of it to you? There may be a dictionary that says what it means, but I’m not talking about that; I’m talking about what it means to you, or me. Is it just about kissing, making out, or what? I think “love” is or has a different meaning to it with boys and girls; we look at it differently especially when we’re young. I think every sometimes no so then maybe most girls have this dream when they’re young, or it can even go on as they get older. They want “love” as in someone who’ll be there for them no matter what; if they’re down they’ll have someone who will find a way to cheer them up; when the girls get sick they’ll have someone who’ll help them get better. It could be different with boys; they might not even be “ready” or thinking about love at a young age. It may be sports, or stuff like that. When they’re older it’s way different, or it might not be. Take high school for example; if you notice when the prom comes around, about 90% of the girls look forward to it, it’s one of the main things to them. The girls will go shopping with their girl friends looking/shopping for dresses. The boys might too, but it doesn’t or probably doesn’t take them as long. When the night comes, well let’s just say it’s one of the most significance things to them. So they, the girls, it will take them a while to get ready; everything has to be perfect for them. Hair nails, dress, shoes, accessories, and so on.

Probably as you get older the meaning of it changes. For girls it may be the same, or it may be different. It could be part of what it says earlier, but with more to it. Someone who’ll be by their side forever, they don’t cheat on them, who’ll want to go everywhere with them, who wont mind taking them shopping, who will want to talk to them all the time, who will take them out a lot and be their selves, from what I also said earlier, and then so on. Now for boys it might start to be the same; not just for kissing, or anything like that. It may just start to be a little bit like the girls meaning of it. The girls have their own way; their own meaning; or wish of what it means. It can mean anything it you. “Love” is the meaning for what you think of it.

If there’s a love song and you thinks it says a lot then that could be your meaning of it. The meaning of life and the meaning of love are both definitely two different things. “Love” to you compared to “love” with me is probably different. To me “love means that someone will be here for me no matter what, someone who will respect me, someone who will care about and for me, when I’m sick I’ll have someone who will try to help get me better, someone who will be with me when I’m down and they’ll try to cheer me up. I want someone who won’t be ashamed of me around their friends and will introduce me to them, I want someone who will take me places and already have to whole day planned out for what to do. I want him to not be afraid of being himself around me; I want him to try to impress me just because it makes me smile. I want him to act himself; he can try to prove that he really and truly loves me more than I love him, which will be hard, depending on how much I love him. I need to know that I can trust him though, I need to know that he won’t cheat on me, If anything were to happen or come up I want him to help me and support me.

Here’s one thing that I, maybe most girls want, whenever we get picked up, we’d like to get a comment on how we look. It makes us feel good and kind of special. Well that’s part of what I look for in a guy. Obviously by the word there’s the keyword part, which is that there’s more to what “love” means to me.

I don’t know if other girls are like this or not, but when I act a “certain way” to a guy then I’m trying to I guess you can say “make them notice me.” There’s another word I’m looking for but that’s the only one that I can think if right now. Love can/could mean absolutely anything to you, and me. Love takes a team of two, not three or four, but two. It takes one to be the one who makes up most of the fights, and the other to help and stop the argument. It takes one to mow the lawn, and fix things that are broken, and it takes the other to just sit and watch/observe. It takes one to give the complements, and it takes the other to say thank you or other stuff. It takes one to cook, and the other one to judge the cooking. It takes one to help with the children, and the other one to play with the children while the other one cleans and gets onto them. It takes one to do the inside work, and the other one to do the outside work. It mainly takes two for a team, that’s one type of love.

They both will have parts or roles in which they will have to play. Two makes a team or a start of something new, three makes a group, four makes a party, five or more, or five or less makes a family. Love can be a meaning for different types of love. Love for a family. Love for just a pair of two. Love for love between a person and animal, or item. It’s all in which you think it stands for. Two people who date are in love, if they get engaged shows how much they love each other, if they get married is beyond more than how they are able to show how they feel about each other, if they have kids it shows that they love each other enough or more than enough to start a family, if they last forever without a divorce then it shows that they were made for each other. It shows that they’re soul mates. Two people in love can show so much in their life, and it could be a good point to others. Everyone loves something, an item or certain object, an animal, and/or person. I have my reasons to be in love, my Mom has hers, my Dad has his, my Sister has hers, my whole family has theirs, and you have yours.

What it is that comes to mind is your very own, to me love has many reasons. The one I’m talking about is love between two people. They both have roles in which they have to follow or go through in order for their relationship to work out. They both can do the same parts, but if they don’t do any of the parts then who knows what could happen. In many love music videos you may see two people in the video. It’s mainly about the two of them. One is a girl, and one is a boy, they don’t want the girl or guy to leave the girl or guy, if that makes any sense. If it’s a girl singing it then she may not want the guy to leave her or it could be vice versa.